Matthew Arbo answers this question through a Biblical ethic. He explains that our lives belong to God, and this must be the framework that we work from when counseling people in our churches through this decision.
In this practical piece, Bruce Ashford gives four ways to read and understand non-fiction books.
For those that align themselves with 9Marks' beliefs, this post by Jonathan Leeman encourages people to, "not be a church leader who abuses authority."
Matt Sliger gives encouragement for pastors to make sure that they have these five different friends "for the purpose of encouragement and for the purpose of growth."
"To be sure, sin is still at work in us to draw us away from this gift of wholeness, but sin does not rule over us as it did once before." -Scott Redd
Gavin Ortlund gives practical advice for people in busy seasons and how they can pursue godly rest even when opportunities aren't prevalent.